We have the presence of mind to live in dual perspectives and neither takes away from the other...
5 Years and here I am... sort of Okey ... and that being okay doesn't mean I stopped loving him or missing him, but it does mean I've found a level of happiness and beauty in my 'new' life that is farther than it was just a short while ago.
I think noticing that shift and being okay with my growth is part of this process. I think being okay is one of the very best things we can see in our grief. It's okay to be not okay at times. And to be okay doesn't mean you left them behind and forgot their time in your life; it just means you didn't leave yourself behind and you didn't forget you are still here for a reason
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